venusianhoney:

“you’re difficult”

It’s funny. I’m actually quite simple if people knew how to ask the proper questions. I’m not common. There’s nothing traditional about me. If the truth makes you uncomfortable, my presence will as well. I’m perfect for those who enjoy authenticity. I’m for those who notice details and okay with living outside the norm. As black woman, I’m rarely humanized. It’s assumed I’m for consumption by everyone and I think the fuck not. I belong to myself always and all ways. I know who I am, what I bring and what I lack. The moment you can’t have your way or you don’t understand, I’m difficult. That’s not true. I’m not made for you.

venusianhoney:

missing you wouldn’t mean so much if I knew what I was missing. Everything we did was so mediocre. But here I am, debating whether hurt feelings is worth taking you off the block list. We don’t want the same things. Your wants are simple while…you know single women…most things come with a hint of desperation.

arabellesicardi:

“Pain is important: how we evade it, how we succumb to it, how we deal with it, how we transcend it.”

— Audre Lorde (via orwell)

(via arabellesicardi)